Everyone has their dreams. It is important to acknowledge that dreams are different. With our own timelines certain life events occur at different times.
It is normal to wonder when the right time is to follow a dream in life. I have learned that it is never the right time for anything.
Since it is never the right time, you should just do what you want to do. It is important to just go for what you want.
No one knows what is going to happen in the future, and we can spend hours worrying about it. Or we can create our future.
Being Left behind
The feeling of being left behind is real, and it hurts. The importance of doing what you dream of doing is valid. Others cannot take your dream away from you.
When I am feeling left behind, I try to remember that everyone has a different vision. No one shares my vision, and I don’t share theirs.
The fact that we do not have the same dreams means we are on different timelines. I am working toward my goal of researching ways to aid in rehabilitation after a brain injury.
That is my current dream. At some point, my goal will be finding the man I love and starting a family, but it is not it right now.
My friends that are engaged right now that is their dream. It is excellent that they are living their dream, and I am living mine.
When you are feeling left behind or left out, think about what you are working towards. Remember what you are trying to accomplish in life.
If you are not working toward a dream right now, sit down and think. What do you hope to accomplish in life?
It doesn’t have to be significant or life-changing. You just must pick something. Try to start small if you are unable to think of a dream.
If you get the chance, please check out my story to have an idea of why I began this blog.
Events in life will happen when it is the right time. Everyone is on their own timeline and it is okay to feel left out but there are ways to help feel less left out.
We all have our own timelines in life. Our timetable may look different than others our age, and sometimes this can be not very easy to accept.
The holidays just occurred, and there were a lot of engagements and moments to share with loved ones.
I am personally of the age where most of my friends are getting married or in long term relationships where I am not. This difference in life is okay; they are where they need to be, and so am I.
I am still working on accepting this fact and I need to allow that I will find the right person. Currently, I am trying to figure out what I want in my life and what I am looking for.
This process includes me trying to figure out my life out. Now that is no small feat; I am journaling every day in order to understand what I want my life to look like.
The transition period of when you and friends are coming out of school and creating an adult life can be tough. We are in the place where the is a sense of unsure and do not know where lives are going.
This post is going to be the beginning of a series about personal timelines, I guess you can call it. Next week I will post a discussion about dealing with the immediate feelings towards being left behind and what has helped me begin to cope with this process and period in life.
If you haven’t had a chance to read my story, please click here.
We all experience fear. This only difference is how we handle it and if we let it rule our lives. This has suggestions on how to overcome fear.
With the new year upon us and there is a bunch of unknown. At least for me, the unknown means fear.
Everyone becomes afraid, and it is a natural human emotion. Fear can aid in a survival situation. It can alert you as to when something is wrong.
The problem is when you let fear hold you back from what you want to do. I am a creature of habit; fear interferes with my chance to move forward with life.
The process of getting a new job was stressful for me. For the first two months, I walked through the door, scared as to what the day would hold.
The stress and fear did not keep me from walking through the doors and facing each day. After a while, I became more comfortable, and now I wouldn’t change where I work for the world. My co-workers are some of my best friends.
There are different ways not to let fear get in the form of how you live your life. It will prevent you from moving forward in life.
When I am doing something that scares me, I try to think about how doing the thing that scares me will benefit me in the future. This allows me to continue the event that scares me.
This suggestion is easier said than done, but I sometimes need to push through the fear and do the act.
I have found that something that helps me is relaxing, I need to take deep breaths and imagine how good things will be after the event. I also (as cliche as this is), go to my happy place, which is somewhere where I am happy and not stressed.
Fear pushes us to new limits if we don’t let it hold us back. Practice and find ways that work for you to conquer your fear.